Non-ProZ.com (asker) Dec 29, 2004:

The point is that Court of divorce decides which parent provides primary and which secondary health insurance, as by regulations one can not have two primary health care insurances. Well, this was not done, so the "conversation" started when the child was admitted into the Hospital, where officials discovered that both insurances are primary and hence against the regulations. Hospital officials took insurance of parent(custodial one) who brought the child to the hospital as primary and asked the party to inform the second parent (non-custodial) to change its policy as secondary to insure proper billing.

I analysed the whole message, and besides list of facts this was the only personal part and hence asked the forum for words, words to avoid vehement reply as the issue is not settled yet.

I thank you all so much for help.